Family stories: Bonus reasons to talk about family history and ancestry

Family stories: Bonus reasons to talk about family history and ancestry. Grandfather tickles laughing grandson on green grass. Photo by monkeybusinessimages/istock
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Quick and easy motivation to start a loved one’s life history

Have you had your DNA analysed to discover your family history?

Certainly the results can confirm ancestors’ origins or come as a surprise (as was my case)!

Indeed results often prompt questions and conversations with older generations.

Undeniably these chats uncover family history but they also have surprising benefits…

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Start family stories flowing

Once a loved one starts remembering stories more and more come to the surface.

For example, it’s like stirring up sand in a riverbed.

Before long you have uncovered buried treasure! 

So be ready to record these memories when they start to flow.

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Get set for adventure

One of the best things about talking family stories is making new discoveries. 

For example, while interviewing my grandmother, I learnt she had also been a journalist. 

So it was exciting to hear what it was like for her as a cadet reporter in the 1930s compared to when I became one 70 years later.

Undoubtedly helping a loved one record their life stories can be adventurous.

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Let the fun times rule

Talking family stories is a great idea because it’s fun!

Indeed you and a loved one get to spend quality time together. 

In addition you have a super excuse to look (and laugh) at old photo albums.

And also bond through an inate human love of storytelling. 

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Final say: Family stories

Family stories are great for discovering basic factual information.

However, there are many other reasons that make such conversations rewarding.

This includes: uncovering long-buried memories, learning new things about a loved one and having fun together!

So appoint yourself the family storycatcher and get started today.

Happy writing!

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