Writing motivation: How to finish writing a book about your life

Writing motivation: How to finish writing a book about your life

The surefire way to motivate yourself to write your autobiography or memoir

First published June 2017: This article has been updated and improved.

I read a viral email several years ago about a ‘love ladder’.

It was a heart-warming story about an elderly husband and wife in central China.

They had lived together simply in a mountainous area for over 50 years.

During this time, the husband carved more than 6000 steps into the hillside so his wife could more easily climb up and down from their home.

It is a remarkable story and made me think about how this man began the epic task.

Starting and finishing a memoir can similarly seem like a huge task!

Here are three writing motivation suggestions to help keep your autobiography on track to completion.

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Writing flow: Finding the best places to write your autobiography

Writing flow: Finding the best places to write your autobiography

How to set up your writing zone and writing environment in three simple steps

First published June 2017: This article has been updated and improved.

Ahhh, the actual act of sitting down to write. 

This is the serious part!

As a journalist I’ve had to learn to write in all types of situations.

Most commonly it is in a noisy newsroom with the screech of a police scanner two feet away, a news channel blarring on an overhead television, not to mention the often ‘enthusiastic’ sarcasm and cussing of my colleagues as they race to file for deadline.

Once a few years ago, after Severe Tropical Cyclone Marcia hit our town and ripped up 1800 power poles in the area, I had my handy neighbour rig up my laptop to a solar panel on the front lawn!

Clearly you REALLY can write anywhere and everywhere – you just need the time and a way to record your thoughts.

But to make writing your autobiography easy it is best to prepare a designated space in which to relax and get creative.

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Best books of 2018: Must-read books about life stories to enjoy these holidays

Best books of 2018

New autobiographies to inspire and learn from in 2019

I love holiday time for a number of reasons.

Free time off work from the newspaper and catching up with family.

But a definite guilty pleasure this time of year is reading.

I love reading and listening to all kind of books, especial non-fiction, autobiographies, biographies, memoir and life stories.

Here are my recommended best books of 2018 in an extended holiday article.

Some I have been suggested, some I have read about and others just look interesting.

They are by a mix of authors, Australian and overseas, and are sure to get you thinking about your own life.

I hope a number of titles catch your fancy too.

Happy reading!

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Case study: Surprise find inspires biography of a late mother

Biography of a late mother
Four generations – Elaine Crabtree, Sarah Hall (Elaine’s grandmother), Isabel Donnollan (nee Hall, Elaine’s mother) and Diana (Elaine’s daughter) about 1982.

Mother’s love: Daughter publishes mother’s journal collection

Elaine Crabtree accidentally fell into her family writing project.

She recently published When We Were Very Rich after finding a collection of notebooks following her mother Isabel Donnollan’s death.

“I was searching through her papers for something and I came across a number of handwritten notebooks,” Elaine said.

“They were all in great detail of her early life growing up around Rockhampton (Central Queensland, Australia) during the Great Depression.

“I had known of the existence of one notebook but was delighted when I saw how much she had written.

“Having found all the notebooks, I found reading them fascinating and I decided that I would try to put them all together.”

Elaine has lived in the United Kingdom for over 50 years and said the biography of a late mother had helped connect her with her family back in Australia.

“My mother was one of 14 and I have 50 first cousins! There is a lot of family to share this story with,” she said.

“As I told my cousins: ‘My mum’s story is the family story for all your parents.’

“When my grandmother had her 100 birthday there were over 200 descendants at her party at Yeppoon (near Rockhampton).

“This was a life story that needed to be shared.”

Elaine said while her mother and maternal grandmother grew up poor they were rich in other ways.

“(Mum) named her story When We Were Very Rich,” she said.

“She felt they were rich in freedom, fresh air, nature and most of all family love and togetherness.”

Keep reading to find out how Elaine saw the book through to completion and what her top tips are for compiling a biography of a late mother or other family member. Continue reading Case study: Surprise find inspires biography of a late mother

How to start a story: Podcast special – memory recall, writing structure plus writing process

Talking tips for writing a book with Rock Your Retirement host Kathe Kline

How to start a story about your life was the key focus of my recent interview on the popular Rock Your Retirement podcast.

I had a blast talking to host Kathe Kline about Writing memoirs for loved ones: Expectations vs. Reality.

Kathe said she wished she had recorded interviews with her father about his life and parents before his dementia and Parkinson’s disease set in.

But she is keen to make a start on her own memoir.

In the episode I explained to her and her listeners ways to start writing and tips to recall memories.

I’ve highlighted the main points for you below.

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Case study: Filmmaker Luke Graham tells powerful father and son story

Case study: Filmmaker Luke Graham tells powerful father and son story

Life of league legend Mark Graham focus of sport documentary Sharko

Off the back of a Father’s Day weekend, I have a wonderful father and son story to share.

I recently caught up with Scope Red filmmaker Luke Graham who produced the 2016 independent hit movie Broke.

I talked to him about making his latest film Sharko, a sport documentary on the life of his father Mark Graham.

Mark recently became the first Kiwi to be inducted into the National Rugby League Hall of Fame and has already been named the greatest player New Zealand has produced in a century of rugby league.

Sharko is based on Mark’s personal and public life – from his childhood on the mean streets of Otahuhu to being top of the rugby league world.

Keep reading to find out how the project got off the ground and learn Luke’s top storytelling tips to apply to your own family story project. Continue reading Case study: Filmmaker Luke Graham tells powerful father and son story

Welcome to Forever Young Autobiographies!

Welcome to Forever Young Autobiographies with Nicola

G’day and thanks for visiting the Forever Young Autobiographies website

Welcome to Forever Young Autobiographies, the place to learn how to create life stories for family and friends so that unique memories live on.

In short, it’s dedicated to guiding ordinary people step by step to start, create and finish life-story projects for family and friends.

Indeed my aim is for you to one day hold in your hands an informative, entertaining and inspiring story about your life or the life of a loved one!

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Top autobiography books to read in 2018

Top autobiography books to read in 2018

Three life story titles to inspire and learn from this summer

Over the Australian summer holidays a number of books begin to pile up on my desk begging to be read.

However, I love reading and learning about other people’s stories!

Mostly I read on my lunch break at work or snatch a few minutes while the kids are playing.

I don’t mind digital books and prefer print, however, audio books are amazing if you are driving long distances or multitasking (think cleaning)!

Last year I was lucky enough to be given a number of personal life stories to read from family and friends.

These were just amazing and detailed different times such as growing up on an Australian dairy farm in the early 20th Century, living in London during the World War II bombings and in Silicon Valley during the dot-com tech bubble.

Top on my ‘list’ this year are a number of books on and about life stories I’d like to share.

There is a mix of male and female writers, Australian and overseas writers.

Let’s discover them together, learn and be inspired! Continue reading Top autobiography books to read in 2018

Podcast special: Three tips to help you transform your autobiography

Part 2: A discussion with child expert Karen Lock Kolp about Your Family Stories and preserving family legacy

In my last article I wrote about appearing on the podcast We Turned Out Okay: The modern parent’s guide to old-school parenting.

Host Karen Lock Kolp M.Ed. had me on the show to talk about my new book Your Family Stories: Easily capture your loved ones’ memories for future generations and to inspire her listeners to record family life stories and memories this Christmas and holiday season.

During the show Karen talked about her family and I raised a number of tips for compiling an autobiography including; using the senses to tap into memories, the power of establishing emotional connections with your audience, and key reasons why YOUR story matters.

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