Ask Nicola Q&A: What are positive traits and qualities of a good writer?

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How to improve your writing with 5 positive characteristics and habits

Hi and welcome to Forever Young Autobiographies – Ask Nicola.

I get many questions about writing life stories for family and friends.

And in this series I aim to highlight some of the queries I receive and give you a glimpse into how I help writers like yourself.

Today’s Ask Nicola answers the following question:

Help, I’m not a natural-born writer! What are some positive traits and qualities of a good writer that I can learn from?

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Book review: Johnathan Thurston – The Autobiography, with James Phelps

Book review: Johnathan Thurston - The Autobiography, with James Phelps, HarperCollins Publishers (Australia). Thurston in action on the field for Australia, and book cover.

The surefire way to understand the NRL Cowboys and State of Origin great JT

My lasting memory of Australian Rugby League great Johnathan ‘JT’ Thurston is kicking a dream goal to win a grand final for the Cowboys in extra time.

As that ball sailed between the posts in 2015 millions jumped to their feet cheering and JT wrote National Rugby League history.

In 2018, after his retirement from the game, came Johnathan Thurston: The Autobiography.

The book was written with the help of sports journalist James Phelps and published by HarperCollins Publishers (Australia)

I recently listened to the autobiography as an audiobook and found it a story of highs, lows, passion and tears. 

Much like a grand final!

Keep reading to find out more and how we can learn from the book as life-story writers.

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Case study: New memoir by Channel 7 news anchor and blood cancer survivor Mike Higgins

Case study: New memoir by Channel 7 news anchor and blood cancer survivor Mike Higgins. Mike Higgins headshot and cover image of his memoir Trouserless Under the News Desk, Boolarong Press. Main photo by Leukaemia Foundation. Make a donation today.
Mike Higgins and his memoir Trouserless Under the News Desk, Boolarong Press. Main photo thanks to the  Leukaemia Foundation. Help the #31Aussies like Mike who are diagnosed every day with a blood cancer by making a donation today.

Former newsreader opens up about Trouserless Under the News Desk by Boolarong Press

Australian TV star Mike Higgins has been on the road spreading the word about his new memoir: Trouserless Under the News Desk.

Forever Young Autobiographies caught up with him to find out more following the book’s released in June by Boolarong Press.

Higgins has been a familiar face on television for over 25 years. 

He was the long-time news anchor for Channel 7 in Queensland but also made award-winning documentaries to be awarded a United Nations media peace prize.

But the broadcast journalist became the news a number of times.

Namely when he went on the run from drug traffickers who he feared would kill him and for filming a story at a nudist beach in the raw.

More recently Higgins had another threat to his life.

In 2008 he was diagnosed with a very rare form of blood cancer – Primary Peripheral Cutaneous T-Cell Lymphoma, Unspecified – and was told he had a 16 per cent chance of survival.

Higgins had four years of chemotherapy, underwent a bone-marrow transplant and nearly died.

His survival stunned doctors who dubbed him the Miracle Man and said not many patients had “done it tougher”.

“I hope the book will be inspirational to people or anyone going through any sort of a challenge, whether it’s cancer or another illness or a psychological challenge,” Higgins said.

Keep reading to find out how he wrote the book, what were the project’s highlights plus Higgins’s tips for starting your own memoir, autobiography, biography or life-story project. 

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Midyear 2019 highlights: Best of 2019 articles and writing tips for beginners

Midyear 2019 highlights: Best of 2019 articles and writing tips for beginners. Pale blue, pink and yellow highlighters laying diagonally on matching sticky notes with purple background. Photo by rawpixel.com from Pexels

Top 3 posts you have loved so far this year

The other week I had family visit and decided to take a break from my writing projects.

It is amazing how even a few days off can give you more clarity and enthusiasm for your writing.

I came back more invigorated and energised to finish the back half of the year strong.

I highly recommend taking a writing break when you have hit a writing milestone or goal such as finishing a first draft of an autobiography.

You deserve it!

And a bit of distance from your writing will help you enormously when you come back to polish your manuscript.

My time away also gave me a chance to clearly see which articles you have been loving.

In this week’s 2019 highlights article I recap the website’s most popular and inspiring reads so far this year…

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How to write an autobiography in four simple steps

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What a writing coach knows about how to write a memoir and how to write a book about someone’s life

I once went into a maze in England.

It was one of those high-hedge varieties that you see in Alice in Wonderland movies.

Although I didn’t encounter The Queen of Hearts or a Mad Hatter, I definitely felt like I was going a little bit crazy looking for an exit.

The fact that I was laughing at myself the whole time didn’t help!

It wasn’t until I remembered the ‘maze secret’ – always turn left – that I had a path to freedom.

What a difference a good tip makes!

The same can be said about how to write an autobiography.

There are so many tasks to think about and do to complete your life story that it can be overwhelming without a ‘roadmap’.

Don’t waste your time jumping down rabbit holes, follow these key steps to create an extraordinary family record.

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Book review: Any Ordinary Day by Leigh Sales

Book review: Any Ordinary Day by Leigh Sales, Hamish Hamilton, Penguin Books. Book cover and Leigh Sales headshot by Daniel Boud.
Photos: Penguin Books Australia and Daniel Boud.

The quick and easy guide to the 7.30 report journalist’s memoir-biography 

As a fellow journalist and writer, I was extremely keen to read Leigh Sales’s latest book.

Any Ordinary Day by Hamish Hamilton (Penguin Books) was released in October by the popular ABC broadcaster anchor.

It is an eye-opening book about “Blindsides, resilience and what happens after the worst day of your life”.

Part memoir, part biography, the work will make you think about how you live your life and love those dearest to you.

Keep reading to find out more and why this book is a must read for any life-story writer…

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New course! Introducing the Setting Writing Goals Guide for life-story writers

New course! Introducing the Setting Writing Goals Guide for life-story writers. Course title overlaid on tropical beach scene of blue water and white broken waves framed by edges of green leaves.  Background photo by Pixabay

Everything memoir writers need to know about imagining inspiring dreams and setting smart goals

This week I’m excited to share I have a new writing goals course for sale specifically for life-story writers!

The Setting Writing Goals Course is designed especially for writers of autobiographies, memoirs and biographies.

It is all about imagining inspiring dreams and smart goal setting to start, write and finish a writing project for yourself or a loved one.

As readers of my website you are the first to hear about the writing goals course!

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Case study: Zookeeper helps great uncle publish autobiography

Case study: Zookeeper helps great uncle publish autobiography. Series of three photos: black and white photo of Hedley as a young man dressed in Royal Air Force uniform with a woman, also in uniform, during World War II; smiling Sarah pats horses in a paddock in the countryside; and a modern colour photo of Hedley dressed casually on a doorstep with his wife Barbara. Photos: Contributed by Sarah Blake
Hedley in the Royal Air Force (left), in later life with his wife Barbara (bottom right), and his great-niece and zookeeper Sarah (top right). Photos: Contributed by Sarah Blake

Three generations work together + new memoir in making

English zookeeper Sarah Blake helped her great uncle Hedley record his autobiography when she was a teen and was struck by how much joy the process brought him.

While Hedley and his wife Barbara started the project it was Sarah and her mother who helped them finish the book for family and friends.

Years later Sarah has been inspired to write about her own life experiences.

She is in the middle of writing a memoir about the 15 months she travelled around the world using wild animals as her guide. 

Today Sarah shares more about Hedley’s autobiography to inform and inspire fellow life-story writers.

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Writing accountability: Personal accountability + accountability partners

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Amazing accountability secrets to write your autobiography

First published September 2017. This article has been updated and improved.

Writing an autobiography, memoir or life story can be exciting and fun but it can also become a chore if you are not careful.

Sometimes it can feel like you are muddling along at your writing desk without any clear direction for weeks, months, even years.

Don’t let this happen to you!

Here are some writing accountability suggestions to help keep you motivated to finish your story.

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Writing time: How to schedule time for writing

Writing time: How to schedule time for writing. Young boy dressed in boardshorts, rash shirt and hat stands in front of an outdoor public swimming pool. Photo by Pexels.

What every autobiography writer ought to know about finding time to write

First published August 2017: This article has been updated and improved.

I love watching the Olympics.

The swimmers are amazing to watch. 

They have trained countless mornings and afternoons for weeks, years.

They have a major goal in mind – swimming at the Olympics – and plan to achieve that goal.

The same can be said for writing an autobiography, memoir or a loved one’s life story. 

You want to have the book finished to share with friends and family.

But you have to get smart about committing to writing time or a writing routine.

You need to ‘take five’ to put a writing plan down on paper and have it clear in your mind…

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